Today, BSA announced that their resolution for a change in
membership standards passed with 61% approval of the 1,400 voting members.
Officially, BSA “approved
a resolution to remove the restriction denying membership to youth on the basis
of sexual orientation alone. The resolution also reinforces that Scouting is a
youth program, and any sexual conduct, whether heterosexual or homosexual, by
youth of Scouting age is contrary to the virtues of Scouting.”
In short, no
child will be denied membership or participation in Scouting based on their
admitted sexual preference.
Since this was
announced, I have had at least 10 people ask me what I thought about this. I think I surprised them with my answer.
“Great. Nothing really changes for me. I have never once asked a child his sexual
orientation nor will I ever. Sexuality
has no place in Scouting.”
By the same
token, I do not ask families about their marital status, their religious
preference, whether they smoke, drink, or even if they are gay/lesbian. Frankly it is irrelevant to me.
Nothing changes
for me.
I have children in our Scouting program that come from all
kinds of backgrounds. I have Scout
parents that are single, divorced, living out of wedlock, etc.
I have friends, coworkers, and family members that are
openly gay and lesbian.
Amazingly, I am able to work with people that may be
different from me, teach Scouts that come from different family backgrounds
than mine, and love my family members and friends that are gay/lesbian.
I don’t agree with each and every one of these individuals,
their beliefs, and their lifestyles.
However, that doesn’t mean I am going to treat them any different than
someone who shares my exact belief system and lifestyle.
Will the new BSA ruling change anything I do as Scout
leader? No. Nothing changes for me.
There is nothing in the Scouting curriculum regarding
sexuality or sexual preference, and this will never be an issue in my group. It wasn’t an issue before. It isn’t now.
Will I try to be a strong Christian role model to all of my Scouts
and their families? Yes.
Will I hate or despise anyone who is different from me based
on their faith, race, or sexuality?
No. I never have, and I never
will. When Scouts and their families
work with me and see me, they know the type of man I am. They also know that as a Christian, I love
others. I don’t have time or room for
hate. I will continue to teach and model God's love.
Again, nothing changes for me.
I am glad that a decision on this resolution is over. It’s time to move forward.
There were a few sentences in today’s official BSA statement
that I feel truly represent my feelings about this issue.
"While
people have different opinions about this policy, we can all agree that kids
are better off when they are in Scouting. Going forward, our Scouting family
will continue to focus on reaching and serving youth in order to help them grow
into good, strong citizens. America's youth need Scouting, and by focusing on
the goals that unite us, we can continue to accomplish incredible things for
young people and the communities we serve."
I am and will
continue to be a Christian role model and Scout leader for the young men in our
Scouting program.
A Scout is trustworthy,
loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave,
clean, and reverent.
This is what I
teach. This is what I will model for each of our Scouts.
Nothing changes
for me.